Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Dad is dying.

This is an odd forum for this sort of information, but since we don't all live in the same small town and talk over our fences, it seems like the closest equivalent.

My Dad is dying. He was scheduled for surgery at MD Anderson the Wednesday before Thanksgiving to remove a tumor, but that Tuesday we discovered the tumor had quadrupled in size in the previous month (not normal for sarcoma at all) and was no longer operable. He started chemotherapy on Thanksgiving day. By Saturday he was in the hospital with neurotoxicity -- a reaction to chemo that causes a lot of confusion and, in his case, paranoia. He also couldn't really walk, mostly due to the tumor (we think). They watched his kidney function, which was slowly getting better, but when the white blood cell the chemo was breaking down starting hitting this weekend, they just couldn't handle it. (We decided not to do dialysis, which would only have been for more chemo, which he really wasn't handling well at all, and wouldn't have helped the tumor enough to be operable...) He's basically in kidney failure right now, slipping into a coma, and waiting for the stress to start affecting his other organs.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

3 comments:

Damon Clinkscales said...

Sara,

I'm so sorry. You and Ben are in my thoughts.

Suzy said...

So sorry to hear the news. Please let us know if you need any babysitting, dinner, distraction.

Susan Watson said...

Sara:

I wanted to send your Mom and sympathy card since we worked closely with both of them to purchase and repair buses for Stepping Stone School. Can you please e-mail me her home address?

We will miss your Dad terribly.

Susan Watson